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Jesus VS The Rest of Us
I had this surprising conversation with my six-year-old daughter the other day. She is quite a talker with fascinating ideas about almost everything. For some reason the topic of the moment was how to make the world a better place and how to get people to make good and right
Yada
This is a continuation from the post about the word “sabbath” and sabbatical and is an extraction from an email we sent out earlier in the year. A pastors need for sabbatical is something that few people truly understand, which is why a second Hebrew word comes in really handy
Kristen, Tonya, & Prejudice
A few months ago I wrote a piece called “Race Is A Meaningless Distinction” where I continued my theme that people aren’t color-coded by talking about what little you could know about two people of a different race (a white person and a black person in this example) based on
Jesus & The Skoggarman
This past Sunday, I preached the first lesson in a Relationship series on Assertiveness. The part of the Bible the teaching came from was Matthew 18:15-20 where Jesus is teaching his followers how to get along with each other and navigate relationships through difficult moments. Right in the middle of
What At-Risk Teens Need to Hear
I have been involved in the lives of at-risk teens (white ones, brown ones, and in recent years, black ones) for a long time and over the years I have learned that there are certain things that they need to hear and certain things they don’t need to hear. There
A Christian Wedding vs. A Secular Wedding
My wife and I are both pastors and get the opportunity on a pretty regular basis to marry people. When we are approached by someone we don’t know about officiating their wedding, this gives us a wonderful opportunity to get to talk to someone new about our faith and our
A Case For Marriage
Many people these days are pretty negative about marriage. For many, the concept of two people saving themselves for each other and then making a lifetime commitment to love and be faithful to each other for the rest of their lives (once referred to as the virtue and spiritual practice
Is God Proud of You?
I could also phrase this question another way, “Is God disappointed in you?” I think it is a question that’s swims around in many people’s souls, especially those who have had difficult or painful relationships with their parents. There are few questions that I believe hold people at a distance
To My Children: “Men Are Visual”
At almost seven and four, you are both far too young for this conversation now, but I was thinking about it and wanted to write a note to your future selves. At some point in your lives you will hear or pick up the message that “men are primarily visual
What I Said About the Election
[This past Sunday morning we took an unusual break in our service to talk about the recent presidential election. Here are my notes.] I want to take an unusual pause in our service this morning to have a pastoral chat about politics. Carrie was kind enough to make room in